Couples With One ADHD Partner
A difficult relationship with adhd
Hello my name is michael and my girlfriend michelle is having a really hard time with me, do to the fact that i have ADHD. She struggles enough in school as an honorol student, but now that im in her life she seems to strugle 4x as more than she did before. And the worst part is that i cant help her with any of her work. Im out of school but in college. And for that reason. Michelle is now more concentrated on me and what i have to do and also how to do it that she has lost sight of her future. Im to blame. Arent i? Well anyway i love her to death i already proposed to her and our one year anniversary start this month on 12/24. But i cant seem to see her struggle anymore. Its too much. It tears us apart with constent arguments. Back and forth on how i cant learn from my mistakes. How i can never pay attention or just listen for once. I easily i get distracted. And worst of all. Time management. I get angry now a days and i cant control myself. I push to the limit without knowing i do. And i cant stop it. I dont take pills or any treatments. But i cant leave her. Ive tried but i just cant. I love her too much but i dont want to cause her anymore pain. What should i do. We’ve tried to work it out but nothing seems to work. Please someone help. I don’t want to lose her
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