Couples With One ADHD Partner
Desperate for help :(
I’ve been with my husband for 13yrs, married for almost 9. I’ve been at my limit with him for over a year now. I do 98% of everything around the home and as far as taking care of our 5yr old princess.
I love my husband he is my best friend. I’m not a nagger, instead I would cry and beg him to pay attention to me, our home our life. I changed everything about my physical appreance so he would want to take me out more than once or twice a year. I cut the grass knowing it stressed him out to do it. I made lists, listened and waited patiently thru 6 career changes. This was all before he was diagnosed last month. I told him I was done and wanted out and he finally went with me to counseling.
He says now that he knows he can change. He’s seeing a nurse practicioner and she is giving him natural supplements to help.
He says he wants to win me back but I feel so broken and iced over that I can’t let him back in.
I want him in my life but I know I am setting myself up for more heartbreak if we stay together.
I would appreciate ANY opinions, comments, or suggestions as I feel like tonight or tomorrow will make or break us
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