Frustrated and need support
Dear Adhd folks,
I just need a moment to vent. My bf gets so mad at me when i am not focused and get confused. He loves me very much and I think his anger has a lot to do with his feelings of inferiority (not my issue) and his frustrations with me and with himself. I just feel like I am constantly jumping through hoops and worse yet some hoops I do not see. Like the kitchen counter. He got mad at me yesterday for not clearing it off. God, I didn’t even notice it to do it. Then, we got into a big conversation of which he was getting mad at me about not being clear in my communication and I slowed down to a green light like it was red. Pure and simple too much stimulation and confusion. I am off my depression medication at this time, but maybe I should start it again. I just feel like he is a father to me and scolds me like a baby. The harder I try to get it right, there always seems to be more. On top of it. Part of me wants to move on due to his anger with me. I love him very much, but I don’t even want to go food shopping with him anymore, due to his overbearing ways.
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