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REALY MASS UP ON HIDING STUFF FORM MY WIFE THIS TIME.

Well in 4 month I lost 2 Job for steeling and the last one charge and I thought I could take care of my self. Well that didn’t work my wife and parent law found out form a court date came in the mail and it back fire on me very badly. The worst of it all I did this where every thing wrong happen to me. Ad/Hd relay hitting me hard in the last 5 year. And my doc. can’t fine a medicine that work for me. But I only saw him 3 time. My doctor said I going be a had case for him. I didn’t Real lise I had this, this bad. I hide everything even form self an I can’t believe I was message up like this. I thought I was a normal guys. Wow come to think of it, it maybe better for me live on my own.I just wish learn how to control my action.If any one have any suggestion please leave me post.
Thank
Jim

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Wow Jim, My suggestion is to live openly and honestly.  Admit to what you have done, make restitution, serve time, whatever to get it all behind you.  Start with a clean slate - no lies, no hiding, no stealing.  ADHD doesn’t make you lie, hide or steal.  It does make it hard to concentrate or focus, organize or deal with time.  Take each day as it comes.  Choose to do what you know is right.  That’s not always easy.  You will have to earn back the trust of those around you.  It can be done.  Do you want to?

Posted by whizinc on Dec 31, 2013 at 10:38am

Thank you for your input whizinc. Yes I do want to stop and change. But when I do these stupid stuff. I don’t think about it and also include my buying too. I just buy thing and hobby I do and it make cridt score bad. It got so bad I threw out what ever was in the mail in the trash. I don’t know how to makeme stop and think of what about I going do and what could happen to me. And yes I do want a clean start and what ever happen to me with this I know I to do what happen to me and change my old habbit. If any one went threw this and start all over and start over. I would you love tohere input

Posted by jamespfluger on Dec 31, 2013 at 5:13pm

James,
    I’m no doctor,  but it may be that like slot of ADD HD people,  we often have double diagnosis, your post reads like you may have impulse issues, your going to want to go to therapy and alway take the meds,  your also going to have to eat right and get real sleep for your brain to work correctly.  Iv dealt with this myself, meditation and working out seems to help me a lot.
David

Posted by daaron31 on Dec 31, 2013 at 9:42pm

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